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( Making a
Successful Second Marriage)
 to
thesecondmarriage.com. The No1 2nd marriage
matrimonial service provider. "The basic factors
of making a remarriage work are pre-planning and understanding,
"It's very important for each partner to take stock
and review what went wrong in his or her previous marriage
-- rather than just blaming the people they married. Also,
people should think about what they want in a new partner.
Security, love and companionship are among the important
factors If there are children from previous relationships,
then "the divorce does not terminate the former marriage
ties. In marriage, most people look for the exclusivity
of love and loyalty invested in each other. In remarriage,
there can be exclusivity in the marital love of the couple,
but the family life cannot be exclusive."
Today, with divorce being so common, people can never be sure how
their marriages will turn out. Although nobody can predict the future.
Sometimes the thrills and emotions that first sparked a relationship
fade over time; sometimes a marriage that didn't have those sparks
grows into something truly special. Nobody can guarantee that your
second marriage will work out, or even that it will work better
than your first. But if you take the time to make sure that you've
found the right person, and to keep the lines of communication and
acceptance open in the relationship, you have a far better chance
of making love lovelier the second time around.
"Be aware
that unresolved problems from your first marriage will show up
again "You must learn to communicate, and to love your partner
in the way he or she needs to be loved -- not in the way you want
to love. Be willing to commit to stretching yourself to fulfill
your partner's needs. It all boils down to learning how to connect
and meet each other's needs."
The
bottom line is that you need to find the right person to share
your life -- and then do the work to ensure that this time, it's
for keeps. With planning, communication, and a measure of introspection,
you can avoid past mistakes and create a lasting, fulfilling remarriage.
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